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November 6, 2013 by Karin Leave a Comment

Someone Is Always Watching

31 days of Good Deeds 31 Days of Good Deeds

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~ Day 25 ~

The couple walked through the same door.

They sat in the same seats.

It was like this.  Every Sunday.  Year after year.

The words washed over them like a soothing rainfall.  The peace transcended all understanding.  All the world faded from focus.

It was like this week after week.

Until this one day.

Somewhere between the mesmerizing melodies and the words of wisdom, they looked over and saw them.

His face buried in his hands while she gently rubbed his shaking shoulders.  He wept without shame.  He wept out of frustration and fear.  He wept with his faith in the fray.  He wept and they watched.

This place of peace and comfort suddenly became a vision of raw, heart-wrenching reality.

What happens when things aren’t so good?

Where is He when we show up week after week and there is no answer?

How long do we have to wait?  It’s just too much…

They watched as she soothed this strong man in his weakest moment.  This weakest moment… right in the middle of a room full of people.

And he wept without shame.  Sometimes we get to the breaking point, and it just doesn’t matter who’s watching anymore.

She rubbed his shoulders in circular rhythm, as though she wanted to wipe it all away.  She wondered when the worry would end.  It had been years now.  No job.  No income.  No help in sight.

These times can break us.  These times without income, without provision, without hope.

It just doesn’t matter who is watching anymore.  And, we break.  Right in the middle of a crowded room. And, no one seems to notice.

But, Someone does.  Someone is watching.  His plans have the most unsuspected twists and turns.  And He opens eyes.  He opens unsuspecting eyes and whispers His words,

Help them.

Sometimes the best kind of worship is seeing His children through His eyes.  

But blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear.  (Matthew 13:16)

She left with her arm around his broad shoulders.  Depleted accounts, disintegrating energy, dashed hopes. It had just been too long.  Where would their help come from?

And, He whispered,

Help them.

The couple looked into each other’s eyes.  The whispers sometimes come so clearly that we wonder why the whole room doesn’t hear.  They both heard.  They smiled into each other’s eyes.  Yes.  Where does our help come from?  The Maker of heaven and earth… the One who whispers.

Hearts in our hands

Time passed and again the couple entered the room through the same doors.  Sat in the same seats.  The words and music cleansed their week-wearied worn souls, and they breathed the holy breath of a Spirit filled room. That’s when they saw them again.

Arms lifted in praise, tears streaming down beaming cheeks.  

Their help did come.  The Maker of heaven and earth has hands and feet all over this planet.

The couple smiled to themselves when they heard of unsuspected provision showing up in a mailbox.  They smiled to themselves when they heard of answered prayers and a new job.  They smiled to themselves as they looked down at their own hands.  Palms up.

The hands in their own laps suddenly looked very much like part of a larger Body.

They smiled as song took the collective Body to a crescendo of praise…

I lift up my eyes to the hills – 

where does my help come from?

My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.

These hands open, all around us…

Someone is always watching.

 

Matthew 6:3-4

But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

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November 5, 2013 by Karin 2 Comments

Just A Pair Of Shoes

31 days of Good Deeds 31 Days of Good Deeds

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~ Day 24 ~

A beautiful story from my new friend, Kari, who told me about a woman who walks the walk… and a pair of shoes ~

Her feet were getting too big. It was really the shoes. The shoes were getting just a little bit too small.  She squeezed those tiny feet into the even tinier shoes and loaded the baby into the car.

Too small shoes would have to give way to growing and hungry stomachs. They had to have food, you know. Can’t go very long without that.

There just hadn’t been enough lately. They were barely holding it together.

She had asked and asked Him for just a pair of shoes… and to help her hold it all together.

Winding through the aisles her eyes caught all the things they couldn’t have. She had to get just enough. Just enough to hold them over. Until the next time.

They would have to learn to stretch the few things in her cart to the limit.

She felt stretched to the end of her limit.  And she couldn’t stop peeking at those tiny feet in the even tinier shoes.

Why does it all have to be so hard?

She kept asking Him for just one pair of shoes.

The toes broke through the front of her baby’s shoes and she couldn’t help but wonder,

Where are You?

Just one pair of shoes…

She reached the limit and headed for the line. Peering in her cart she hoped the food in front of her would last long enough. Again, those tiny feet… growing so fast.

tiny wriggling feet

Wouldn’t you know, there were shoes hanging next to the checkout.

She mused in frustration,

There just isn’t enough.

And, those tiny wriggling feet.

Stretched farther than she could bear, she placed her hands on the hanging shoes and threw them in the cart.

There has to be a way.

The cashier slid one beeping item after another as her bill grew and stretched.

There will just have to be enough.

She reached into her bag to retrieve all she could give.

Nothing.

No wallet.

Her heart sank as she realized she had left it at home.

Nothing.

Not one thing.  A cart full.  No money.  And a pair of shoes.

 I just needed the shoes.

Then.

Just when she thought no one saw her.  Just when she thought He wasn’t listening anymore.

I’ve got this, dear.  Let me pay for your groceries.

The voice came from behind her.

A woman.  She could have been a grandmother.

She reached across and slid her card through before the young mother could respond.

Tears filled her eyes as she told the older woman,

I’ve been asking Him for a pair of shoes.

Only God.

Only God would reach us from behind through the heart of a stranger and fill our carts and our souls…

and even throw in a pair of shoes.

 

2 John 1:5-6

And now, dear lady, I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning.  I ask that we love one another.  And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands.  As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love.

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November 4, 2013 by Karin 2 Comments

The One Word We All Need To Make It Through

31 days of Good Deeds 31 Days of Good Deeds

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~ Day 23 ~

We tend to overthink things.

We mull over how, when, where, why, and who.

We ponder and wonder… how will we get through all this?

The answer is a word.  It’s a word that sometimes comes close to losing its meaning.  This word can seem hokey or cliché.  We toss it around like falling leaves.

Making it through  

But, this one simple word is the answer to all of it. The trick is… living it.  All.  The.  Time.  

The catch is… letting ourselves break for this one word over and over.  Sometimes we face becoming fools for this word in the eyes of the world… until we are molded into the very word itself.

I have the coolest friend.  She shared the most beautiful story.  This story is about her brother.  These words are her own… sometimes it’s just best to leave words as pure as they are given.

The story is real and raw and beautiful.

This is a story about living the one word we all need to make it through.

Love.

My brother called me this morning, “So, where should I eat for lunch?”
I said, “How about some Mexican food?”  He responded, “Ha, exactly what I was thinking!”
A little while later he called me again, “Hey! So, I went to “Pancho’s” and got myself a burrito…” He continued to tell me about his experience at the Taco shop —

There was a guy in line at the register with his girlfriend and their baby.  The cashier said, “Your total is $16.” The guy pulled out all the cash he had, paid a portion of the cost, and handed the cashier a debit card to cover the rest of their purchase. The cashier swiped the card and said, “Sorry, your card was denied.  Insufficient funds.”
My brother watched the whole thing.  He got up and told the guy, “Hey, No worries!  I got it!  Let me pay the rest. I know what it’s like to just want to take your girl and kid out to eat.  Enjoy your meal!”

After my bro shared that with me, we started talking about other “God Stories,” like the time he lived in Vegas a few years ago.  He stopped at Little Caesars, and ate a whole pizza on his way to church. After service was over, The Holy Spirit said, “You are to go eat at *—–* Restaurant.”  My Brother thought, “But I’m not Hungry. I just ate a whole pizza.” Again he heard, “Go to the restaurant, I will feed you.”  So He listened and drove.  When he arrived, he stepped out of his car and saw a homeless woman who then approached him and said, “I’m hungry, can you feed me?”  My brother replied, “Yes, I’m here to feed you!”  They went inside together.  He told her, “Order ANYTHING you want.”  She said, “Is this to go?”  He replied, “No, I’m going to sit with you.”  They sat and talked for at least an hour. She expressed how much she missed her children and explained why she was homeless. He shared the love of God with her and told her how much Jesus Loves her.

God fed my brother and the woman that day.  Christ is the Living Water – The Bread of Life.
We are all called to be a witness of HIS love.  My Brother got addicted to meth as a young teenager, and has struggled with drug abuse since then.  He was saved and gave his life to Christ while in The Salvation Army Rehab Program over 10 years ago.  In those weakest moments, in our selfish times, God’s grace is still evident.  Every time my brother comes to the cross, broken, calling upon the name of Jesus, seeking HIS grace and forgiveness, his heart is changed – his desires change.  God’s hand is never too short to save.  We are reminded every day of the chaos and confusion that this world has to offer.  But then we are reminded of GOD’s mercy, through simple acts of love and kindness.  Especially when we make ourselves available to be the hand that reaches out in love to help those in need. It is HE who gives us strength. There are opportunities everywhere – to share in ONE LOVE.  Christ alone.  Not by the “power” of our own works, but by the LOVE in our hearts. (I love you Bro!)

God’s hand is never too short to save.

There are opportunities everywhere – to share in One Love.

And this is how we will make it through.  It doesn’t get any better than that.

1 John 4:12

No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

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Filed Under: A Day in the Life, Community, Compassion, Faith, Good Deeds, Love, Together Tagged With: love, the one word, together

October 29, 2013 by Karin 6 Comments

When You Meet James

31 days of Good Deeds 31 Days of Good Deeds

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~ Day 21 ~

I knew better this time.

I remembered the woman with the worn skin, sunken eyes, and faded flannel.

I remembered the whispers of the Voice that beckoned. The One I had forgotten to listen to a time or two.

I remembered the way she looked at me with her wry smile and the glimmer of gratitude in her eyes before she disappeared into the sea of cars.

I knew better this time and waited in anticipation for the breath of His instruction.

Be prepared. There is someone waiting.

The thing is, there is always someone waiting.  Waiting for a hand, a word of truth… a hope.  There is always someone who needs to hear,

You are not alone. You are loved.

It’s our job, you know. This is what He asks from us. I didn’t want to miss it this time.

I checked my wallet,

Good to go.

Another day of shopping for the small army in our house. Another day of scanning, searching, and surveying the aisles. Another day of hunting and gathering. This time, my view of this mob scene changed.

We’ve got it made.

There is more than enough for every one here. Yet, there are some who can’t get in the front door.

I packed up the supplies and headed for the exit.  The intersection was jammed with cars and the left turn would take me home.

There he was.

Sitting on the right side of the road.

He was different, though. He didn’t even look up.

His face was buried in the back of his rough hands as he held fast to a cane.  A cardboard sign sat propped against his bent legs. It simply stated,

I’ve lost everything, but my faith.

I wonder how much we have to lose before faith fades to memory.

I wonder why he held tightly to faith while sitting lost on a street corner, while I struggle with faith in a truck full of groceries.

I scrambled for my wallet trying to grab anything I could give to him before the light changed. It was too late. The light turned green and the rush of traffic propelled me forward. I had to turn, you know. Can’t keep people waiting.

That’s when I heard it. The whisper I had been waiting for…

Turn around and go back.

My stomach churned and I could feel my skin prickle with the sense of His presence. I peered into the rearview, and thought for just a moment,

It seems crazy to turn around.

A look in the rearview

Hands grabbing the wheel, I turned a U in the road and headed back to where the lost soul waited.

Ok, God, I’m going back. This seems a little crazy, but I’m going back. Please keep the traffic off me while I stop.

I turned and veered through the congested lot as my truck found its way to the right turn lane. A lane that would take me miles off course with no chance of a turn around.

Don’t we just want to get to a place where we can’t turn back?  A place where we have to move forward in this blind faith, following the whispering and urging Voice.

I sat three cars back and saw him. He had not lifted his head from his tired hands. I could see the back of his sign now,

You can at least smile.

The man with nothing but his faith wanted a hand… or at least a smile.

Why do we do that? Drive by, averting our eyes, not offering the slightest smile of kindness. Those are free. Why is it that we greedily hold those close, only to share them with someone who bothers to share first.  Just a smile.

I held up the money in my hand just as he lifted his head.

Then, I saw.

His leg, partially covered in white bandaging, was a mangled mess of broken skin. As if the man had begun to crack wide open, leaving nothing to be seen but the oozing pain that he carried with him.

He shuffled slowly to my truck and stopped short at the car in front of me. They handed him a dollar and he nodded in thanks.

He winced in pain as he proceeded toward the money I held in my hand.  My heart nearly bled as I watched him stumble in my direction.

He was worn and tired. His eyes squinted with each step.  I wanted to get out, but I was sandwiched in this red light place.

As he reached my car, I rolled down the window and handed him the twenty dollars,

I’m sorry. I didn’t want you to walk this far.

He didn’t hear my words as he turned his eyes upward and murmured,

Praise Jesus.

I looked into his blue eyes, aged with pain, and could see that he was not as old as he appeared.

What is your name?

He looked at me, his eyes soft and wet, and replied,

James.

James. The book I have studied twice in the past two years. The brother of Jesus. The man who wrote of good deeds and patience and taming the tongue. The book that convicts us to open hands and hearts to the poor. The book that wrecked me for good. I remember weeping over that study, as my eyes went to the faces of children on my screen. The book that grabbed me by my comfortable shoulders and said,

…faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. (James 2:17)

The book that opened my sleepy eyes and exclaimed,

Wake up!

James. Of course his name was James.

I looked into his tired face,

James, I am going to pray for you.

His eyes lit with understanding,

Oh, yes! Please. Pray for healing and deliverance.

God bless you.

God bless me.  Yes.  He already has.  I smiled at James,

I will, James. I will pray right now.  God bless… you.

The light turned, the traffic pushed, and I drove away.

I am just learning to be bold. Bold in faith, that is. Here is what amazes me. A disheveled and wounded soul sitting on a street corner knows just exactly what he needs from God.  Healing and deliverance.

Too often my prayers are vague, unsure, nondescript, rote. I am learning. This art of conversation with God; it begins with listening. Listening to the Voice that pushes and urges. Listening to the souls who have lost everything, but their faith.

Listening. And responding. This art of a relationship. A dance, really.

I drove away. The sense of His presence overwhelmed me. I felt Him in my breath as I prayed for James. Healing and deliverance.

I prayed the words of James as God enveloped me in His presence. His voice hung in my words as He whispered,

I am here.

And, we danced.

 

James 2:14-16

What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds?  Can such faith save them?  Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food.  If one of you says to him, “Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it?

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October 24, 2013 by Karin 12 Comments

When We Begin To Get Over Ourselves

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~ Day 19 ~

I’ve been a mother for 12 years today.
Really, though, motherhood began 9 months before that (ok, we all know it’s actually 10).  When you carry the weight of the future on your bladder for any amount of time, you know the exact amount of time.  Down to the very minute.

What I didn’t know… the weight of the future was the very thing that would begin the release of the weight of my selfishness.

Motherhood.  The vessel He uses to get us over ourselves.

We enter into this place with a million preconceived notions of how we will play this whole thing out.  We step through the door holding this perfect breath from God and we think we might have a clue.  This is where it all begins.  We have no idea.  The thoughts in our minds give way to the crashing wave of pure love.  This love washes any idea of who we think we are… away.  We come face to face with someone we want to die for – again and again.  But, first, we have to die to ourselves.  And this is the rub.

The battle – my thoughts, my ideas, my wishes, my dreams collide… with His.

Holding tightly to the holy moment of birth is just the beginning of letting it all go.

This is when our hearts begin to take residence – outside of our bodies.  With each baby, over and over again, we die to ourselves… and open up to Him.  Only God would begin this slow and often painful death to our selfish natures through the birth of something so breathtakingly exquisite.  New life wrapped in the sweet aroma of innocence cradled in our unsuspecting arms.  The best of us is yet to come.

Sometimes, though, he lets us begin our journey into selfless love much earlier.  Sometimes He allows to exercise these muscles of you-before-me when we are much younger.  Perhaps even as young as 11… soon to be 12.

And, sometimes He surprises this unsuspecting mama with a story of an unselfish good deed.  A good deed that mama didn’t have to prompt or prod or produce.  Sometimes He lets us know we are doing this motherhood thing a little bit right.

It's always better with two

I was away on a trip (a small miracle in itself, thanks to my gold-hearted warrior).  Dad decided to take our six pack to a carnival.  The bravery in that task is another story entirely.

The pumpkins, rides, and treats thrilled this young crew of ours.  Most of all, of course, the rides and slides were mission number one.

Tickets bought, treats ingested, it was time.  The kids rode and squealed and lived it up.

Our four-year-old discovered quickly that some thrills look better from the ground up.

It’s too scary! I don’t like it!

Our red-headed summer warrior shrieked.

Sometimes bravery is just knowing what you’re not ready for.  And saying so.

Tickets dwindled and energy faded.

With only a handful of tickets left to thrill these little ones, my warrior offered them one more ride.

The big kids, ready to tackle the most thrilling ride, grabbed their chance and took off.

Our normally brave little summer girl exclaimed,

But, I want to go on those swings. I’m too scared of that ride.

Daddy stood holding the baby, knowing the only way she would go was with a companion.  We don’t really want to go this alone, do we?  It’s always better with two.

The kids want to ride that one, sweetie.

Then, the part that bursts a mama heart.  All these years of do-this-don’t-do-that-be-nice-share-love-each-other.  All the refereeing of siblings.  All the times of it’s-not-about-you.  Then, this one time.  It takes root… and I wasn’t even there.  I can’t take credit (but, I can give plenty to my warrior).  I can’t even begin to think it had anything to do with what I told my boy to do.  He just did it.  And my heart explodes.

I’ll go with her, dad.

C’mon, little sister, I’ll take you on the swings.

Now, the swings… they go round and round, not up nor down.  Pretty lame for an 11, almost 12-year-old.

They spun in circles, she squealed with glee, and my heart melts.

We teach and train and cajole and plead.  We bark and bellow and beg.  We hold and hug and pour ourselves out… day after day.  Then, God.  He gives us a glimpse.  A momentary whisper of,

Job well done.

The pouring out… from a big brother to a little sister.  This.  

This whole new soul dying to self and giving to love.  And my heart wholly fills.

 

2 Thessalonians 3:13

And as for you, brothers, never tire of doing what is right. 

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